How do i talk to guys?

sounds like you have malephobia!!!! just be yourself, dont think of them as a guy. think of them as a person. dont jump to conclusions and think youre going anywhere that guy. relationships start out as FRIENDS first, not lovers. be in a relationship so that you can share your thoughts and feelings with the person who makes you feel good about yourself, not for the physical or lusting part. just be chill, think of them as a girl if that helps. just be confident in yourself. dont be afraid of small talk cause small talk is what really sparks conversations. and most of all, dont run away!