Dont know what to do about marrige problem...long, sorry...?

Wow.. First of all it's going to be ok. Calm down and take a deep breathe. Second, you have to understand that you are married to him and it's not right for you just to walk away, since you have the new baby on the way and all. The main thing is the pregnantcy, take care of yourself. That is your primary focus. You hold yourself together and let him make a disaster of the situation. It's not your fault. Once everything is set and donem, not only is regret going to sit on him. But your conscience is going to be clear. Do not divorce him. Let him do that. I suggest you move to a friend or seek a church for help. It is better than using him while he uses you physically and mentally. Do not worry, you are going to get through this. I do not think anyone can really forgive a person for cheating multiple times, at that being flirtagious. He sounds like a true definition of a womanizer. I have newer called that to anyone. And believe me, if he didn't feel any simpathy with the first time he cheated. He surely does not love you. It seems to me that he takes advantage on the fact that you do not have a shoulder to lean on. You need to break that cycle. The kids are affected by each action we make. They have an undeveloped sence. If you seek deep within you will find it too, when you were growing up. You recall certain things that explain the way you are today. I hope I was of some help.